tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252989339414779206.post5780386824703871512..comments2024-03-05T00:28:20.506+00:00Comments on Life Coach Tips: Assertiveness TipSelf-Help Author David Bonham-Carterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15775379809617480810noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252989339414779206.post-35722735735385965992013-01-02T03:55:36.528+00:002013-01-02T03:55:36.528+00:00Great advice! Thank you so much for sharing the ar...Great advice! Thank you so much for sharing the article. It is really a great help. Staying calmly is vital and can reduce stress too. Nice post, thanks again!Helle M. | Life and Business Mentorhttp://www.hellemikkelsen.com/mentoring-program/financial-joy-academy/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252989339414779206.post-38695882912696927692012-12-28T11:21:50.320+00:002012-12-28T11:21:50.320+00:00Hi - it's not the length of time that's im...Hi - it's not the length of time that's important (that will vary according to the situation). The point is to express yourself clearly and politely rather than in a way that will likely prompt a defensive response. Then give a bit of time to see if there is a change in behaviour even if the initial response is negative before you consider whether to raise the topic again. With regard to your topic of weight loss, I don't know whether you want her to lose weight or vice versa. Ideally it is something you would discuss between you in an adult way whilstbut recognising that individuals have choice as to what they do, even if they don't always do what you like.Self-Help Author David Bonham-Carterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15775379809617480810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252989339414779206.post-8368704898115434592012-12-26T18:49:31.313+00:002012-12-26T18:49:31.313+00:00Hi David,
Thanks for your advise,I have tried back...Hi David,<br />Thanks for your advise,I have tried backing down,but i think i either wait for longer time before returning to the subject i.e weight lose, when i don't see a change in her behaviour, i get frustrated and renew my criticism,again with much more impart.If i getting what your saying,not to live it too longer,and possible remind her in a gentle and a more receptive time.is that right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-252989339414779206.post-28287527154124449232012-11-21T10:37:57.850+00:002012-11-21T10:37:57.850+00:00Dear David
Thank you. Your advice make much sense ...Dear David<br />Thank you. Your advice make much sense and has come just in time for an issue that requires this action.<br />God bless xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com